Balancing Act: Retirement Fund vs. College Tuition
In the realm of financial planning, one of the most pressing dilemmas facing parents is whether to prioritize saving for retirement or funding their children’s college education. It's a balancing act between securing your own future and investing in your children's potential. As college costs continue to rise, parents may want to help their kids get through school without accumulating a mountain of debt. But how much support is too much when parents’ retirement goals also need to be accounted for?
The Rising Cost of Education
It’s no secret: College is very expensive, whether your kid attends a college close to home or in another state. At an average of $28,840 in the 2023-24 school year, even the cost of attending an in-state, public institution is significantly higher than it was a few years ago. According to the College Board, the average cost of tuition at four-year private colleges is $41,540. Moreover, by some estimates, when annual price increases are factored in, four years of private college could jump from about $250,000 for today’s freshmen to well over $600,000 by the time a child born today applies for college.
The Imperative of Retirement Savings
Retirement is often referred to as the golden years, a time when individuals can finally enjoy the fruits of their labor and pursue their passions without the constraints of work.
The Three Pillars of Retirement
Retirement income typically comes from three primary sources: Social Security, personal savings, and pensions. Social Security payments are determined by your earnings history and will provide a fixed amount plus cost of living increases in the future.
Time is of the Essence
The magic of compound interest is a crucial factor in retirement planning. Starting early allows your investments to grow exponentially over time, thanks to the compounding effect. Unless you fall into a substantial and perfectly timed inheritance or win the lottery, your retirement income will be based on what you save and invest.
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Uncertainty of Social Security
While Social Security benefits provide some level of income during retirement, they are likely not going to be sufficient to maintain your desired standard of living. How many retirees can take out cost-of-living retirement loans? None.
Maintaining Financial Independence
Saving for retirement ensures that you can maintain financial independence and cover your living expenses without relying on your children for support. "As parents, we want to give our children more than what we had-it’s natural,” says Stanley Poorman, financial professional with Principal®. “But make sure you’re secure first. You’re the foundation, and if that’s weak the whole house might fall."
The Value of Investing in Education
Investing in your children’s education is a noble endeavor that can have far-reaching benefits for their future success and well-being.
A Brighter Future
A college education is often viewed as a gateway to better career opportunities and higher earning potential.
Reducing Student Loan Debt
With the rising cost of tuition, many students graduate with substantial student loan debt, which can be a significant financial burden during their working years. Many parents and caregivers would do a lot-including raiding their own retirement savings-to help their kids escape that debt burden. After all, retirement might be decades in the future.
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Family Legacy and Values
Supporting your children’s educational pursuits is a way of passing down family values and fostering a culture of learning within your family.
Finding the Right Balance
While saving for retirement and funding kids’ college education are both important long-term goals, finding the right balance between the two can be challenging. In the debate between prioritizing retirement savings versus funding kids’ college education, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. It’s a deeply personal decision that depends on your financial priorities, family dynamics, and long-term goals.
Prioritize Retirement Savings
Start by maximizing your contributions to retirement accounts such as 401(k)s, IRAs, or other retirement savings vehicles. Take advantage of employer matching contributions and tax-advantaged savings options to accelerate your retirement savings. Any employer match is essentially an immediate 100% return on your money. Some experts recommend that you save 10 to 15% of your annual income for retirement. Some financial professionals suggest higher-earning families invest 10% to 15% of gross income each year to save enough for retirement. For example, a client with an annual household income of $200,000 ideally would have $540,000 in current retirement savings by age 45.
Explore College Savings Options
Research college savings plans such as 529 plans, Coverdell ESAs, or custodial accounts to set aside funds for your children’s education.
Encourage Financial Responsibility
Teach your children the value of financial responsibility and the importance of applying for scholarships, grants, and earning part-time income to help fund their education. As the cost of college continues to rise, your children should take a vested interest in their education and be willing to contribute. How much of the education expenses will the parents pay for, and how much will the child have to cover themselves? Ranzau recommends parents have that particular conversation with their kids early to set expectations. Setting a target can also inspire them to apply for grants or scholarships. Even for parents who have the means to pay for it all, Ranzau recommends having the kids foot some of the bill. “I think it’s a good thing for kids to have some skin in the game,” she says. “Their education becomes more valuable to them. Millennials have reshaped the notion of college, opting to make their own rules. Having a stake in their own future makes this next step more meaningful to them, helping to take some of the burden off you.
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Seek Professional Guidance
Consult with a financial planner who can assess your unique financial situation and help you develop a comprehensive plan that balances your retirement goals with your children’s educational needs. One of the first things to do after evaluating the possible cost of tuition is to consult with a financial planner. They will help you assess your goals, look at your current retirement plan, and provide objective, realistic guidance on whether your finances can meet your expectations. Ranzau suggests starting with a wealth plan, which can provide families with a better understanding of income and expenses. To make it most effective, she recommends not only looking at today, but also projecting both income and expenses out for the future, as much as possible. Revisiting that plan regularly is also critical. Once you have a plan in place, it’s best to start saving, even a little bit, Ranzau says. “The power of compounding is often overlooked, but is pretty compelling,” she says.
Retirement First: A Matter of Necessity
It’s often said, “You can take out a loan for college, but you can’t take out a loan for retirement.” While cliché, this statement holds weight. Financially, it is possible to borrow for almost everything in life-except retirement-which is why you need to prepare yourself to cover all of your own expenses when you no longer have a steady paycheck. If you underfund your retirement, your future options become limited. You may have to work longer than planned, reduce your lifestyle expectations, or rely on family members for financial support. On the other hand, your child can typically turn to a number of financial options to assist with college costs, including federal grants, scholarships, loans and work-study programs. And remember, if you run out of retirement funds, you may wind up leaning on your kids for support - and that could be more costly than a college loan.
The Power of Time and Compound Growth
Another important factor is time. The earlier you invest in your retirement, the more you benefit from compound growth. Delaying contributions in favor of paying tuition may mean missing out on years of investment gains-gains that are difficult to make up later.
Avoiding a Stretched Financial State
Additionally, if you attempt to fund college while under-saving for retirement, you may find yourself stretched too thin to achieve either goal successfully.
Supporting Education: A Matter of Choice
While prioritizing retirement is often the financially sound choice, there are compelling reasons to assist with your child’s education costs if you have the means.
Mitigating Student Loan Burdens
Student loan debt is a major financial hurdle for many young adults, often delaying homeownership, retirement savings, and wealth accumulation.
Expanding Educational Opportunities
Parental support can also expand educational opportunities. Without financial help, some students may be limited in their college choices or forced to work excessive hours, potentially affecting their academic performance and future earning potential.
The Emotional Rewards of Support
There’s also an emotional component-many parents take great satisfaction in providing their children with the best possible start in life. As parents always want the best for their children, and modern society sometimes shames parents who are unable to put their children through school or are unwilling to sacrifice their own retirement funds.
Alternative Approaches
Rather than thinking in absolutes-college or retirement-it’s possible to strike a balance.
Maximize Tax-Advantaged Accounts
Contribute at least enough to your 401(k) to get the full employer match-it’s essentially free money. If possible, fund IRAs or Roth IRAs to continue building long-term savings. Maximizing 401(k) and IRA contributions, including tax-free Roth options, can grow retirement funds more efficiently over time, as well as provide additional savings families need.
Encourage Financial Awareness and Contribution
Encourage your child to take an active role in understanding the financial impact of their college choice. Have them research scholarships, consider work-study programs, or explore more affordable in-state options. It’s also important to look at the total cost of tuition relative to expected salary after graduation. For example, is an out-of-state engineering degree really worth $120,000 more if an in-state program offers similar career prospects? Discuss all the impacts as a family,” Poorman says.
Consider a Hybrid Approach
You don’t have to fully fund either goal at the expense of the other. One option is to have your child take out student loans while you prioritize retirement. Then, as you become more financially stable, you can later help them pay down their debt. This approach allows you to maintain your own financial security while still providing meaningful support.
Leverage Alternative Funding Sources
If your retirement savings are on track, you may consider tapping into home equity, using a taxable investment account, or accessing other resources.
529 Plans vs. Roth IRAs: A Closer Look
College may still be years away for your kids, but you may already be saving. Both 529 plans and Roth IRAs offer tax advantages, but they work in very different ways. One is purpose-built for education, while the other was designed for retirement but can offer some flexibility for college expenses.
Contributions and Tax Deductions
You can’t claim a federal tax deduction for contributions to either a Roth IRA or a 529 plan. Contributions to a 529 plan are considered gifts for tax purposes. For tax year 2026, contributions greater than $19,000 (or $38,000 for a married couple), could require the contributor to file a gift tax return. However, you can make larger contributions to 529 plans using 5-year gift tax averaging.
Tax-Free Growth and Withdrawals
Your earnings in both a 529 plan and a Roth IRA grow tax-free. But when it comes to making withdrawals, Roth IRAs can provide greater flexibility, but there may be tax and penalty considerations. In a Roth IRA, the principal portion (the amount you put in) can be withdrawn tax-free and penalty-free at any time for any purpose. Withdrawals from the earnings portion of your Roth IRA are subject to income tax and a 10% penalty if made before the age of 59 1/2.
Contribution Limits and Income Restrictions
An advantage of 529 plans is that individuals of all income levels can contribute to a 529 account. Moreover, there are generally no annual contribution limits, and deposits up to $19,000 ($38,000 for married couples filing jointly) will qualify for the annual gift tax exclusion in 2026. On the other hand, only individuals below certain Modified Adjusted Gross Income (MAGI) levels can contribute to a Roth IRA.
Gifting and Ownership
Another advantage of 529 plans is that friends and family members can make contributions to a 529 plan, regardless of who owns it. Gifts to a 529 plan on birthdays, holidays and other milestones can add up over time.
Financial Aid Impact
A Roth IRA distribution, however, may be reported as income on the FAFSA. If you take a taxable distribution, the taxable income is added to your adjusted gross income (AGI). The value of a 529 college savings plan, whether it is owned by a dependent student or one of their parents, is considered a parental asset on the FAFSA. When determining the Student Aid Index (SAI), only a maximum of 5.64 percent of a parent’s assets will be used to pay for college expenses. This is much lower than accounts that are considered the student’s assets, which are assessed at 20 percent. Withdrawals from parent- or student-owned 529 accounts are excluded from federal income tax returns and do not have to be added back to base-year income on the following year’s FAFSA.
Making the Right Choice
There is no choice that’s correct 100% of the time between a Roth IRA and a 529. The Roth IRA may offer more flexibility, but the 529 plan allows you to contribute more and enjoy tax savings at any age.
Questions to Consider
- Do you want to save for goals other than education?
- Are you able to contribute more than the annual Roth IRA contribution limit?
- How will your choice impact financial aid eligibility?
The Benefits of Both
Contributing to both a Roth IRA and a 529 savings plan allows you to save for retirement and your child’s college expenses, and provides you with maximum flexibility.
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