Spreading Smiles: Random Acts of Kindness Ideas for Students
In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our own lives and lose touch with the people around us. Many of us are guilty of spending far too much time in front of a computer screen or staring at our phones and not connecting with what’s going on in the real world this very moment. Taking a moment to perform a random act of kindness can brighten someone's day and make a positive impact on the world. As Bob Kerrey once said, “Unexpected kindness is the most powerful, least costly, and most underrated agent of human change.”
The Power of Kindness in the Student Community
As PTO and PTA leaders, we just love that we have the chance to influence our school culture for the better, making kindness, empathy, inclusion, and acceptance an everyday thing. Getting kids involved in bettering the world around them helps develop both perspective and empathy-and the knowledge that we can all help change the world for the better. Random acts of kindness are simple gestures that are meant to brighten a person’s day or assist them when they are in need of help. They can be quick and easy, and they make a big impact!
Simple Acts, Significant Impact
Here are some random acts of kindness ideas for students to spread cheer and make a difference:
- Express Gratitude: Write a letter to someone who made a difference in your life that you haven’t seen in a while. Yes, on real paper. Leave a thank you card for someone who works on campus. A simple call is an easy act of kindness! The conversation does not need to be long or drawn out. You can simply say, “I just wanted to call and say I love you!” or “I wanted to hear a little bit about your day before my appointment in 20 minutes!” It is especially important to call our family members that are in their later stages in life because they do not have many opportunities to socially interact with others, and even a quick conversation on the phone can improve their mood and mental health.
- Offer Support and Guidance: Study with someone after class. There’s always someone who needs a little extra help, it may be you. Standing in line? Give directions to someone who looks lost on campus.
- Show Appreciation for Service: If you see a member of our military on campus, stop and thank them for their service. Hinds Community College is a military-friendly campus and we have many students who have (or are currently) risking their lives for our country.
- Spread Positivity: Create and print some inspirational flyers to hang in your dorm or on campus. Take a moment to leave a positive comment on one of their posts. The simple message on this poster reminds students of their role in spreading kindness. Hang your poster at student eye level in a highly trafficked area of the school, like a hallway near the cafeteria or the wall near the exit to the playground.
- Extend a Helping Hand: It’s cold, give up your parking spot to someone else.
- Support Local Businesses: If you’re buying Christmas gifts, support businesses in your local community.
- Donate and Give Back: Have some nice clothes that don’t quite fit anymore? Call the animal shelter and ask if there’s anything you can do to help. Give gift cards to strangers. Donate. Choose a nonprofit that is doing work you are passionate about and help provide the financial support it needs to continue doing its work! Nonprofits are fully funded by grants and donors, so your donation will be extremely appreciated. When you donate, you get to help a charitable organization improve your community, which will in turn improve your life. It’s a win-win!
School-Wide Initiatives for a Kinder Environment
Here are some ideas to inspire your whole school:
- Kindness Board: Encourage students to add “sprinkles” (cards that have acts of kindness they've completed written on them) to the board.
- Kindness Events: During a Kindness Counts Night (or a Kindness Carnival), families can make cards for local nursing homes and hospitals, assemble blessing bags for homeless shelters, and donate items like winter coats for families in need.
- Appreciation Station: Set up an appreciation station in the school cafeteria or lobby where students can drop by to write notes for teachers and staff. Coordinate with your local coffee chain on this fun kindness initiative!
- Kindness Tokens: What a fun activity! "Pocket hugs" are simple, heart-shaped tokens that remind students they’re never alone.
- Kindness Rocks: Invite students to decorate rocks with messages of kindness, empathy, and hope during recess. Collect and place them in a designated garden, or line the walkway of an outdoor learning space with the decorated rocks. A few tips from one of our rock star PTO leaders: Prep rocks in advance with Rust-Oleum American Accents 2x Ultra Cover spray paint, then decorate with oil-based paint pens (just make sure you open and activate them in advance). Given students hearts to write down acts of kindness they performed.
- Kindness Pledges and Notes: Students at Whipple Elementary in Canton, Ohio, get together regularly to make kindness a priority at their school, from signing kindness pledges to passing out kindness notes and lollipops at football games.
- Kindness Elves: Come December, that pesky Elf on the Shelf can be found wreaking harmless holiday havoc in classrooms everywhere (he’s even been blamed for that paper jam in the office). But some schools are trading it for Kindness Elves who bring notes asking children to do one kind thing each day. For instance: “Write cards to kids at St.
- Kindness Apparel: Great to don during antibullying month (October) and Random Acts of Kindness Week (February), “kindwear” is the fun way to show that your students are proud to be kind.
- Community Building: Come together to celebrate the fabric of your school community with an all-school lip dub video. Show kids that individually we may be different, but we each play an important part and together we can accomplish anything.
- Inspirational Spaces: Gather parent volunteers and teachers to paint inspirational quotations on walls in the school restrooms or lobby. For all you non-painters out there, you can use vinyl, too.
- Kindness Challenges: Challenge students to perform different acts of kindness all week (these fun “kindness challenge” pencils make it hard to pick just one!). Give each day of the week a theme to encourage kids to think about how their actions and behavior affect those around them. Monday: What if we practice positivity? (wear pink or purple)Tuesday: What if we serve others? (wear camouflage or superhero cape)Wednesday: What if we don’t judge others by how they look? (wear funky glasses)Thursday: What if we stand up for one another? (school spirit shirt & jeans)Friday: What if we have no excuses?
- Inclusive Activities: Give students who might otherwise play alone the opportunity to engage with their classmates during a structured, feel-good activity. Offer a sensory path to encourage physical movement, games like giant Jenga and classic board games, or an epic Lego wall to encourage kids to build together. Roll out an arts and crafts cart to allow quieter kids to create, draw, and color, or invite students to help the PTO with a “VIP task” like gluing googly eyes to cups for the upcoming monster-theme movie night.
- Kindness Paper Chain: Start a schoolwide kindness paper chain and see how far it can reach throughout the school. To start, give paper strips to teachers. When a student or teacher is the recipient of a random act of kindness, have them write it on a strip of paper and add a link to their classroom chain.
- Aerial Art: Source a drone (just ask those techie 5th graders!) and have students assemble on the blacktop in heart formation.
- Kindness Recognition: As part of an extensive school kindness program implemented through the 365Z Foundation, organizers at Chaffee Elementary in Oxford, Mass., recognize students who’ve shown kind behavior in a variety of ways. At the kindness cafe, kids who’ve demonstrated kindness have their lunch with Captain Kindness (alter ego of school principal Robert Pelczarski); after lunch, they enjoy a surprise treat. “We set some expectations on what we hope to see in regards to kindness and behavior,” Pelczarski says. Positive affirmation mirrors let students see uplifting messages like “I am capable” every day, boosting self-esteem and confidence.
The Ripple Effect of Kindness
The term “pay it forward” can be used to describe paying for another person’s food, supplies, etc. For example, someone at a coffee shop could choose to pay it forward and purchase a coffee for the person in line behind them. An easy act of kindness like paying it forward often has a big effect! At the very least, this random act of kindness could brighten the person’s day. At the most, it could help someone that is struggling financially. While a typical paying it forward scenario involves purchases, there are also ways to creatively pay it forward with our actions. You can give up your seat on a bus, leave an uplifting note for someone to find, or allow the person in line behind you at the grocery store to check out before you. The point of paying it forward is to take time out of your day to perform a simple action that will benefit another person.
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While a simple compliment can seem small and insignificant, it has so much meaning! Simple compliments like “I love your outfit!” or “Your presentation at the meeting today was great!” do not take much effort, but they could be exactly what that person needed to hear. Not only can giving a compliment boost someone’s mood and confidence, and it’s also a way of saying to that person, “I see you.” A statistic included in the Harvard Graduate School of Education Loneliness in America article reports that “36% of all Americans-including 61% of young adults and 51% of mothers with young children-feel ‘serious loneliness.’” It is important to recognize others through compliments and kind words because it will make them feel accepted and included. Furthermore, when our lives become busy and hectic, it is easy to choose to focus only on ourselves - which can make us feel lonely.
One random act of kindness we highly recommend is to volunteer! Choosing to volunteer is such a selfless act, and you can easily make it personal. If you are passionate about the environment, you can get in contact with an organization that plants trees or removes trash from the side of the road. If you care about helping underserved youth in your community, you can call a local nonprofit that provides care or resources for children. Volunteering will allow you to improve your community while doing something you feel good about! Many nonprofit organizations will accept volunteers a week in advance, a few days in advance, or even the day of. Pro tip: Mention your relevant skills and training, as they may be useful for a specialized project for the nonprofit!
Making Kindness a Habit
Every day can be an opportunity to show your loved ones that you care in ways both big and small. One quick and easy act of kindness is to donate. Choose a nonprofit that is doing work you are passionate about and help provide the financial support it needs to continue doing its work! If you are passionate about education, the achievement gap, equity in education and your community, and underserved children Educate. Radiate. Elevate. is the perfect nonprofit to donate to! It is important to have compassion for yourself, too!
National Random Acts of Kindness (RAK) Day will be celebrated on February 17. The holiday originated in 1995 in Denver, Colorado, developed by a small nonprofit organization known as the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation. The holiday is based on the idea that making kindness a normal part of one’s everyday life spreads light and makes the world a better place. The Random Acts of Kindness Foundation encourages students to make kindness the norm.
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